-My ex, who is staying with my girlfriend (and her boyfriend) because he moved his girlfriend in with them (along with another friend who also has a complicated relationship with all of us) to me and my wife while on Skype.
Life’s rad. But why is everyone I love (besides Christina) oh-so-very far away? *pout*
At least Jay & Charlie will come to visit soon, and they’re bringing me a present from Alison & Jimmy!
When people ask me how I “became a feminist:” Basically it’s like Tyra Mail that Luna from Sailor Moon brings you and you open it and glitter and arm pit hair falls out and then you read the message and it says “MISANDRY 2012,” and then your first vibrator appears under your pillow.
I want to punch all my coworkers in the face but they would probably chalk it up to me being on the rag or some other bullshit
I seriously think I’m going to loose my shit at my job in the near future. I am usually always biting my tongue. I’ve been trying to deflect misogynistic comments with humor the past few months but it’s just getting harder and harder. The past couple of weeks I’ve tried speaking up and calling out my coworkers male/white/cis privilege. It’s just so fucking useless and is making me feel like shit. It’s taken me the past 8 months to even work up the courage, every time though I start saying why I think their joke was hurtful or how reverse racism is bull shit I just get shut down. I’m terribly self conscious of how inarticulate I feel I can be and I always feel like I freeze up and forget how to support my statements. On top of those feelings my coworkers just bombard me with how I’m over thinking things or how I take things to an extreme. I just shut down when they all gang up on me. I just want to work in a peaceful environment but when the owner of your company is the instigator of 60% of this shit what do you do? I just feel dumb and fucking voiceless and like I’m stuck there(for the time being at least). It all made worse by the fact that they all feel like they are so much more social aware then everyone else because they are vegan. So there is no possible way they could be sexist, cissexist or racist.